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Make Your Move
I was having a conversation with one of my girls the other day about our first date. Inevitably, some of the men she’d gone out with in the past came up.
Here’s how it went down…
Her: “I remember meeting you at [random bar] after work, I wasn’t sure what to expect.”
Me: “That bartender didn’t even believe me when I told him I had a hot date coming.”
Her: “The dork with the glasses? Ha! I remember… it was completely dead that night.”
Me: “Yeah, when you showed up in that sexy black dress he was speechless.”
Her: “I was impressed with you actually… I don’t even usually kiss on the first date.”
Me: “…And yet you took me home. Why was I different?”
Her: “Most guys disappoint me. They never make any moves, and I don’t see them again.”
Me: “And I did…?”
Her (smiling): “Don’t act like you don’t know. You’re like the only one who…”
Me (rubbing my neck): “Heh, I guess I just go after what I want.”
Her (blushing): “You… yes, you definitely do.”
Women will often tell you what they think they want — a nice, polite beta — but what they truly desire is a man who takes charge and goes after his own. The kind of guy that makes her scream his name and mean it. A man who makes moves will be rewarded far more often than the man who is afraid of consequences and rejection.
I went in for the kiss early with a girl who normally puts out an intimidating, alpha female vibe. Few of the men in her life were bold enough to do so before me… so I was rewarded… with sex.
Don’t be coy, don’t suppress your urges. If you want to kiss a girl, you go for it. What’s the worst thing that could happen? She stops you? You get slapped? She walks out? Surely there are far worse things in life than being rejected for trying to kiss a woman.
When a girl tells you she doesn’t kiss on the first date, she’s usually lying, shit-testing you, or trying not to come across as a whore. It’s possible that she’s never met a guy with any game.
Nice guys back off because they lack the balls and they’re afraid of the possible rejection. Know that you will never be rewarded for inaction. That means no pussy for you. Take action.
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